The issue of divorce, both as we are going through it and subsequently how we develop our lives, creates a major challenge.
Many aspects of our life may drastically change: our daily routine, our financial resources, where we live, and our relationship with our children and other family members.
We may feel overwhelmed with powerful emotions of anger, fear, and stress now that our lives are in turmoil. Feelings of confusion and doubt about how to proceed may predominate our thinking.
We may naturally look for advice - whether legal, financial, or emotional, and yet a stark reality will evenutally hit us - we alone ultimately have to make the multitude of decisions, control our powerful emotions, and deal with various parties.
When our divorce is finally consummated, we still need to decide how we will best live our lives under these drastically changed circumstances. We need a method to help us work through these issues in an ongoing way.